If the entry price of the flag or consolidation is hit, but then the market just starts moving sideways not hitting either entry or stop loss. Is there a point where I can say this is not the typical flag trader trade and just exit?

If the entry price of the flag or consolidation is hit, but then the market just starts moving sideways not hitting either entry or stop loss. Is there a point where I can say this is not the typical flag trader trade and just exit?

Yes, it's typically where it stops being a flag or consolidation, becomes range bound, and other opportunities look better.

Also, watch to see if the OVI remains in the direction of the dominant trend, and the presence of Big Money Footprints, sometimes it can take days for the breakout to occur.